I was very excited about fashion week and I am happy to report I was not disappointed. I learned a number of things over the eight days and I thought it would be fun to share them in the form of rules. But first, big shout out to editor, makeup artist and all around great person, Felicia Walker Benson of www.ThisThatBeauty.com and thanks to my amazing friend and serious graphic artist/architect, Peta, of www.teneightyink.com for creating my business cards on short notice. Last but in no way least, shout out to my partner in late night fashion week crime, Lauren, @inawordfab.
Breathing
Fashion Week Cherry Goes…Pop!
Pop!
So far in my “Random.Breathing.People.Watching.Life” of a blog, I have only hinted at my love for fashion and amazing personal style. This year, thanks to Felicia Walker Benson, of www.thisthatbeauty.com, I will be attending New York Fashion Week (NYFW). (Insert ‘fat kid in an ice cream shop’ happiness, here.) Now, before you start sending me gift cards to Saks to help me prepare for this occasion, I must say for the first time ever, I am more concerned about what others will be wearing versus what I will be donning. Yes, of course I want to look fantastic but this is definitely not about me. It’s about the designers who have spent countless hours pouring their creative souls in wearable works of art. Make-up artists and hair stylists who help designers bring their creations to life. Runway, lighting and music directors who set the stage (and may be at the mercy of the designers) and countless others who make a fashion show amazing. I will challenge myself to wear only what I currently have in my closet (old art, if you will.) I’ll reserve my severely limited funds to buy pieces inspired by fashion from my first ever NYFW. Maybe for this one I’ll buy a couple of tank tops and a pair of black skinny jeans and oh, a black military inspired blazer and maybe a necklace and ohhhhh, earrings and maybe a little black dress and a lacy top, oh, ok – I’m not buying anything – just wanted to see if you were paying attention
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What I will be doing for NYFW…
I will be back stage for a couple of make-up brands that I have reviewed for www.thisthatbeauty.com in the past, as well as some that I have only seen or heard about. From the looks of my schedule, I’m going to be in the tents for more shows than I can fit on one hand (insert ‘fat kid in an ice cream shop that just heard there is also free cake’ happiness, here.) I’m also looking forward to the shows that are out of the tents because I’ve heard those shows tend to be on the more creative side. I don’t know what is going to be more intense, seeing the models as they get prepped or seeing them strut down the runway, live! One thing is certain, I am going to have to go clinical strength antiperspirant for the week because I’m “gonna be sweating like a slave” with excitement, of course. Oh and another thing, I will not hesitate to laugh at a model who falls on the runway. I don’t care who says what, this video in particular is mind numbingly hilarious. My coverage of New York Fashion Week will be available on www.ThisThatBeauty.com.
The Challenge…
Now, if you read my blog when I first started posting, you will know that I am directionally challenged (see post Directional Suicide.) Translation, I get lost frequently and easily (I am convinced it is a brain defect.) A challenge I will face during fashion week is getting to shows on time, especially when I have back to back events. I’m not even one percent New Yorker, so, starting right now I am creating a schedule with directions and notes to help me navigate. I will also need an extra battery for my phone because it will be my second lung after the first has collapsed. If you have any suggestions, please share.
What I want from you…
I don’t even have to hope I have an amazing experience because it is guaranteed. For up to the minute information on all things New York Fashion Week and beauty follow @ThisThatBeauty on Twitter. For information on my company JUNC Brands LLC (maker of Hair and Skin JUNC) follow @HairAndSkinJUNC. For up to the minute tweets about my first New York Fashion Week, life, love, all things random (especially what’s wrong with leisure suits) follow me @CNicholaC.
By the way, feel free to send those gift cards, I am never one to look a gift horse in the mouth. Besides, after fashion week, I’m going to want to shop
The Beauty of You
This is dedicated to my dearest friend in the world, Nicholette and her baby boy, Joshua.
*****
Today I cried for You but more so for her
I know the pain now surging through her is infinitely worst than anything I can imagine
If only I could take her pain away
I wish I could go back a few hours
Back to when she was happy, excited and counting down the days
Can we go back to yesterday?
The day before the emptiness began
I remember where I was when I got the news of You
My heart smiled with joy and excitement
I remember instantly wanting You to be a girl
Because I knew we would get along famously
Your mommy only wanted a healthy You, a You to love unconditionally
We went through names and their meanings; we never picked the one that said,“You”
We have many pictures of You growing in mommy’s tummy
Daddy, uncle, grandma, grandpa and countless others anxiously awaited your arrival
You had tons of fans who came out and showered you repeatedly
We marveled at your mommy’s glowing beauty, even when she thought she looked otherwise
She loved You and happily welcomed all it would take to get You here
I sit here now remembering when You were a part of her
The most important part of her
The part of her she wanted to nurture and watch grow into an amazing You
To my best friend, You are an angel
You had a life and soul
You held promise, hope and had so much love
Now, she’ll never really hold You or see Your smiling face
Even though we didn’t get to meet, You are still a part of all of us
Mommy now knows a love she never thought possible and that’s because of You
We won’t ask why You left us
We won’t cast any blame
We’ll say good-bye with peace and love
You’re mommy’s forever star
-Always and Forever, CNC
Tiny Hands of the Master Clock
My best friend lost her baby today…
*****
Tick Tock
The hands of the clock wait for no man
Everyone else is smiling but my world has stopped turning
My clock is damaged
Nothing seems to make sense
Tick tock
My wind has been diverted
My sails are broken
My water’s still
Aimless, lost, confused
Dare I ask “why?”
Time marches on but for me there’s no meaning
Tick tock
The hands of the clock wait for no man
You were promised here but now that offer has been rescinded
My movement’s slowed but time doesn’t skip a beat
Tick Tock
Yes, now I ask “why? ‘but your face has no reason
There is nothing to verify only tears left to shed
Tick tock
I’m walking in darkness
Tick tock
Only time can bring back the light
Fail!
Trying to be quiet when all I want to do is shout
Saying yes, yes, when all I really mean is no
This shit can’t be right
I think I broke into someone else’s life

