I firmly believe that if you put bullshit out there and people don’t call you out on it, they are basically giving you a stamp of approval. If someone tells me they are inconsiderate, annoying and fake, either by their actions or their words, and I chose to hang out with them anyway, I am saying to them “I accept you as you are.” Continue Reading
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Plankton Attraction
Recently I got to thinking about the laws of attraction and I have concluded that there is no such law. For me, the attraction to the opposite sex (and the same sex) has been rather contrary. No real rhyme or reason to the way I select friends and boyfriends. Looking back at the people of consequence that have broken through my “force-field,” if you will, I’d say confidence is the key. People that appear to be completely comfortable in their own skin have more to Continue Reading
Endangered Politician and Hypocrisy
I am convinced that people who are completely enamored by politicians want to be lied to. If truthful politicians were a species, they would be endangered and protected more fiercely than the panda bear. There is a certain level of pretentiousness that surrounds someone who has to try to get a whole community, city, or country of people to like them. On one hand, they are just as biased and as judgmental as the next person but on the other hand they pretend to be different things to different people. They have to mold themselves to be appealing to the masses. I know myself and I think I have a good grasp on the nature of humans, because of this I know I can never wholeheartedly trust a politician. I don’t think politicians necessarily want to lie, they must often feel as if they are being backed into a corner. They feel they have to lie in order to get people to trust them enough to do a job only a few people want to do or are capable of doing. Isn’t it ironic that they lie to gain trust?
There is always outcry when it is revealed that a politician has messed up, publicly. People want apologies and they want heads to roll. I say what is the point? If said politician meant to do what he did, when he did it, what is the point of an apology? I’d venture a guess that no politician is ever truly sorry for living his life how he wants to, however, they are always sorry that they are caught. As long as the politician does the job that he is elected to do, I could give two shits if he cheats on his wife, likes men or likes to have people pee on him. If he is cheating tax payers in anyway or doing them a disservice, then there is a problem. If he breaks the laws as they apply to everyone else, then there is a problem. But that’s just me.
Usually, after a politician gets caught in a lie that has nothing to do with politics, he apologizes, the media gets a sound bite that is played and analyzed for several days and the public gets to pretend that they or someone they know has not done something similar to what the politician is accused of doing. The hypocrisy of the whole cycle is mind boggling. People want to be lied to. Who among us is qualified to judge another person’s morality? I know I’m not and I don’t know anyone that fits the bill.
Somewhere along the line it seems as if a “life hand book” was drawn up (and I am not referring to any religious books), and various self righteous sanctimonious individuals, whether they are to the left or the right, appointed themselves as enforcer of the hand book rules. The only problem is, no one can follow the rules. Some people are better liars than others, they have better PR people and more money, so, to the very gullible public they seem cleaner and less morally inept than the average human being.
Politicians are liars because we are all liars in one way or another. Politicians are fallible because we are all fallible. We are more alike than we are different and we all have similar urges, some of us choose to ignore or suppress them, some of us give in to them and some of us channel our energy into ensuring those who indulge are made to feel inferior, substandard or immoral. Politicians have adapted to harsh environment and constant close scrutiny. They may not have started out as liars, but they have developed a method for survival and unfortunately, none of us are the better for it.
My Forever
There you are, my Love
There you are in my forever, my future
My heart warm and filled with happiness
I smile that forever smile, unintentionally
I know love’s possibilities because you smile
You see me with eyes full of promise but with quiet contentment
There you are, my Love
I’m overwhelmed by your possibilities
You, your smile, your heart’s joy has taught me well
You are my forever, my Love
Tiny Hands of the Master Clock
My best friend lost her baby today…
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Tick Tock
The hands of the clock wait for no man
Everyone else is smiling but my world has stopped turning
My clock is damaged
Nothing seems to make sense
Tick tock
My wind has been diverted
My sails are broken
My water’s still
Aimless, lost, confused
Dare I ask “why?”
Time marches on but for me there’s no meaning
Tick tock
The hands of the clock wait for no man
You were promised here but now that offer has been rescinded
My movement’s slowed but time doesn’t skip a beat
Tick Tock
Yes, now I ask “why? ‘but your face has no reason
There is nothing to verify only tears left to shed
Tick tock
I’m walking in darkness
Tick tock
Only time can bring back the light
