1. take full responsibility for your choices.
2. trust, then let go.
3. know that if you look for the bad in anyone, you will surely find it.
4. you are the only person responsible for your happiness.
5. no one can make you do anything, even when there is a gun to your head, there is always a choice.
6. if you think you can only feel good when someone else feels bad, reevaluate your choices.
7. popular opinion is just that, opinion.
8. if your religion leads you to believe you are superior to another human being, either your religion is bullshit or you are misinterpreting what you see, hear and read.
9. don't try to change people, you will fail every time.
10. life is happening now, not tomorrow or yesterday, now.